Anger


ANGER EXPLAINED

What is Anger?

Anger is an aroused state in which the mind's attention is focussed on a potential threat and the body responds by getting ready to run or fight. Adrenaline and other stress hormones run round the body, heart rate and blood pressure rise, breathing gets deeper and faster, blood is diverted from the organs to the muscles, and the whole organism gets ready for action. At the same time, thinking becomes more primitive and modern intelligence, a significant part of what makes us human, disappears. It is a primal, energised state, similar in many ways to sexual arousal, so it can be quite addictive.

Why combat anger?

Many angry people will die before their time, of cardio-vascular complications brought on by the continuing periods of high physical arousal. Life may be dangerous and unpleasant, for themselves, their relatives and friends and the people they meet. The rising levels of angry behaviour in society are making whole communities more stressful, intimidating and depressing places to be.

What can be done?

The first step is to find out what is causing the angry behaviour. Anger doesn't just happen; it is a response to something in the environment. So, what is triggering it? Is it related to previous traumatic events that need to be de-traumatised? If not, what elements in the angry person's life need to be re-interpreted?

As the therapist I can do this using trance work, or, sometimes known as guided imagery, to help the angry person learn how to manage emotional states.

Once you begin rehearsing staying calm in situations which previously caused angry outbursts, you will also be taught how to become generally calmer.

How can people become calmer overall?

Anyone, not just those who are reacting angrily to their environment, will benefit from learning how to reduce their general emotional arousal level.

People who regularly relax, for example, tend to have fewer illnesses and a longer and happier life, and there are other things that almost anyone can do which will have a profound effect on mood and well-being generally, reducing stress by attending to unmet emotional needs.

Emotional needs and stress

Reducing or cutting out over-stimulation from television, DVDs, computer games, drugs, and other unbalancing elements of the modern lifestyle will help; learning calming techniques and new ways of responding to stressful situations is very useful; but the main improvement will come from meeting the essential emotional needs in the customer’s life.

To find out whether the way you live is making you angry, nervous or sad, why not take the Emotional Needs Audit it could change your life . . ..